RADICAL HEALING IS RADICALLY

You already (more than) know. Yes, you do.

What needs are held tight by your anger.

The truth at the core of the fear.

What longing is driving this sadness.

When you brace instead of breathe, withdraw instead of reach, contract or expand.

What the medicine is for (and if it isn’t why it isn’t working anymore).

What made loneliness less scary than intimacy, control more important than intention.

Why you’ll abandon your-self just to stay.

What all the doing is protecting you from feeling.

Why you’re drained and distracted, frozen or fragmented, trapped in thought, broken-hearted.

Why you lost your way.

That the words aren’t enough.

That you’re not too much.

How you learned to hide the wound, mute your voice, crush your will, deny your gut.

Why it’s so hard to say sorry.

Or why it’s so hard to say no.

What might happen if you could.

Why you had to forget.

And I won’t turn away. No, I won’t.

Together, we’ll make and hold the slow, safe, sacred space for you to reconnect and re-member. We’ll bring body and mind back into dialogical dance — hearing-feeling-sensing-speaking the questions and answers you’ve been forced to ignore. We’ll be incredibly care-full: you’ll set the purpose and pace — while we insistently (at)tend to the experiences and responses you’ve had to suppress, push through, invalidate, and numb out. We’ll language your emotions and sensations. We’ll (re)map your truths and your adaptations. We’ll stay near, stay soft, be moved, be still. We’ll sit in potent, poignant, productive silence: holding your meaning without reaching for their words. We’ll shed tears that feel as good as our laughter. We will grieve, you’ll be enraged — and you’ll know that it makes perfect sense. You’ll tread the steady, circuitous path to epiphany: let out a breath you’ve been holding your whole life. It may seem like you forget again, but the work is the re-turn — and through sensing and returning you will feel profoundly changed. So we’ll recreate the solid ground; the protected place; the vibrant, resonant, iterative process for you to rest, rely, release, recentre, reintegrate, and re-emerge…not fully formed, but wholly ready: to re‑become (again).

You already (more than) know. Yes, you do.

What needs are held tight by your anger.

The truth at the core of the fear.

What longing is driving this sadness.

When you brace instead of breathe, withdraw instead of reach, contract or expand.

What the medicine is for (and if it isn’t why it isn’t working anymore).

What made loneliness less scary than intimacy, control more important than intention.

Why you’ll abandon your-self just to stay.

What all the doing is protecting you from feeling.

Why you’re drained and distracted, frozen or fragmented, trapped in thought, broken-​hearted.

Why you lost your way.

That the words aren’t enough.

That you’re not too much.

How you learned to hide the wound, mute your voice, crush your will, deny your gut.

Why it’s so hard to say sorry.

Or why it’s so hard to say no.

What might happen if you could.

Why you had to forget.

And I won’t turn away. No, I won’t.

Together, we’ll make and hold the slow, safe, sacred space for you to reconnect and re‑member. We’ll bring body and mind back into dialogical dance — hearing-​feeling-​sensing-​speaking the questions and answers you’ve been forced to ignore. We’ll be incredibly care-full: you’ll set the purpose and pace — while we insistently (at)tend to the experiences and responses you’ve had to suppress, push through, invalidate, and numb out. We’ll language your emotions and sensations. We’ll (re)map your truths and your adaptations. We’ll stay near, stay soft, be moved, be still. We’ll sit in potent, poignant, productive silence: holding your meaning without reaching for their words. We’ll shed tears that feel as good as our laughter. We will grieve, you’ll be enraged — and you’ll know that it makes perfect sense. You’ll tread the steady, circuitous path to epiphany: let out a breath you’ve been holding your whole life. It may seem like you forget again, but the work is the re-turn — and through sensing and returning you will feel profoundly changed. So we’ll recreate the solid ground; the protected place; the vibrant, resonant, iterative process for you to rest, rely, release, recentre, reintegrate, and re-emerge…not fully formed, but wholly ready: to re-become (again).

“People can stand what is true, for they are already enduring it.”

— Eugene Gendlin

Our work will be radically…

RELATIONAL

INTEGRATIVE

EMBODIED, EMOTIONAL, EXPERIENTIAL, & EXISTENTIAL

What if I don’t want to explore my experience in sociocultural context?

Or what if I don’t want to engage in somatic work?

You can find transparent answers to these — and many other — important questions on the FAQ page.

  • “What we need is a culture where the common experience of trauma leads to a normalisation of healing...Let our lives be a practice ground where we’re learning to generate the abundance of love and care we, as a species, are longing for.”

    — adrienne maree brown

  • “…Trauma in a person, decontextualised over time, can look like personality. Trauma in a family, decontextualised over time, can look like family traits. Trauma decontextualised in a people, over time, can look like culture…”

    — Resmaa Menakem

  • “It’s the relationship that heals, the relationship that heals, the relationship that heals...”

    — Irving Yalom

  • “Healing is an act of communion.”

    — bell hooks

  • “To heal is to touch with love that which was previously touched by fear.”

    — Stephen Levine

  • “When we seek for connection, we restore the world to wholeness. Our seemingly separate lives become meaningful as we discover how truly necessary we are to each other.”

    — Margaret J. Wheatley

  • “Wholeness is not achieved by cutting off a portion of one’s being, but by integration of the contraries.”

    — Carl Jung

  • “It is to experience that I must return again and again, to discover a closer approximation to truth as it is in the process of becoming me.”

    — Carl Rogers

  • “No matter how deeply we have been wounded, when we listen to the inner voice that calls us back to our bodies, back to wholeness, we begin our (healing) journey.”

    — Tara Brach

  • “Where the lips are silent, the heart has a thousand tongues.”

    — Rumi

  • “What are the words you do not yet have? What do you need to say? What are the tyrannies you swallow day by day and attempt to make your own, until you will sicken and die of them, still in silence?”

    — Audre Lorde

  • “Darling, I know you are suffering, that is why I am here for you.”

    — Thich Nhat Hanh, from the Love Mantras

  • “I will not abandon myself. I will not turn from my embodied vulnerability. For just this moment, I will step into the unknown, and listen.”

    — Matt Licata

  • “...Knowing is a verb that worlds, and as such must never be reduced to a set of retrievable operations. Knowing is not about filling a person up. Knowing is about finding a way, fielding a map.”

    — Erin Manning

  • “...the possibilities for what the world might become call out in the pause that precedes each breath before a moment comes into being and the world is remade again...”

    — Karen Barad

  • “No body or mind can be left behind — only moving together can we accomplish the revolution we require.”

    Sins Invalid, from the 10 Principles of Disability Justice

  • “…I am the dialogue between my Self and el espiritu del mundo. I change myself, I change the world.”

    — Gloria Anzaldúa

  • “All that you touch you change. All that you change changes you...”

    — Octavia Butler

And so tenderly, vigilantly attuned to the embodied ethics of…

ANTI-OPPRESSION

ANTI-RACISM

ANTI-COLONIALISM

CULTURAL HUMILITY & RESPONSIVENESS

INTERSECTIONAL FEMINISM

REPRODUCTIVE JUSTICE

2SLGBTQIA+ LIBERATION

CELEBRATING NEURODIVERSITY

SEX, SEX WORK, KINK, POLY, & BODY POSITIVITY

DYING WITH DIGNITY

SELF- & COLLECTIVE CARE

DISABILITY JUSTICE

HARM REDUCTION

NON‑PATHOLOGISATION & ANTI‑SANEISM

TRANSFORMATIVE JUSTICE

We deserve radical healing, regenerative communion, living‑and‑breathing dignity, (un)yielding accountability, and revolutionary care: this is our gloriously collective, expansive response‑ability. I have nothing but my entire self to offer to this work of love and justice…

I more than know it is enough.

What struggles and hopes might we work through together?

Learn more on the Offerings & Specialisation page.

What exactly will all this beautiful complexity look like from beginning to ending?

Learn more on the Therapy Process page.

“For as we begin to recognise our deepest feelings, we begin to give up, of necessity, being satisfied with suffering and self-negation, and with the numbness which so often seems like their only alternative in our society. Our acts against oppression become integral with self, motivated and empowered from within.”

— Audre Lorde